1. If you are 35 years old and still unmarried, would you still wait for your true love? Why?
In my opinion, marriage is something is very important as well as it is a people destiny. I belive in the theory that only the true love can lead to happy married. Of course, some people find their true love earlier than others. Some one still find their love in the late, even in their forties. It is clear that a pure love does not depend on ranges of ages. So, if I am 35 years old without marriage, I am still quite waiting for my true love and never get married from other reasons such as worry about ages,…
2. Who will pay for the wedding costs? Man, woman or both? Why?
Traditionally, the groom pays for the engagement ring while the bride and her parents host the engagement party and pay for it. The mother and father of the bride have the duty to welcome the groom and his family, and by organising a formal event of this kind, everyone gets a chance to be officially introduced before the wedding day. There is also a charming custom of announcing the engagement in the local paper, and this formality is also the responsibility of the bride’s parents. However, many couples prefer to organise an engagement party themselves and cover all the expenses. One of the best wedding budget tips is to include only the closest of friends to your engagement party guest list.
3. What do you think is the best age to get married?
It is clear that there is no best age to married because people can get married when they find their true love. Every one falls in love in different age in their lives, some one can fall in love earlier, even in a high school, o thers spend o long time to wait a true love, untils 30 or 40. However, the best age to marry is also the age, when people are mature enough and they can earn enough money by a stable job to live independently , usually after 30. Accoding to the doctors, the best age to marry is the age , they can give bird to ensure that their children will be smart and intelligent, It is not more than 35 years old.
4. Does getting married mean giving up your freedom?
No. I do not think it means giving up `freedom’ but it does mean becoming more responsible. Becoming more responsible, becoming answerable to another human being, does not make one less `free’ – it can, in fact, make one more free in that one begins to understand what one is capable of giving and yet, at the same time, maintaining for oneself. A big, big mistake a lot of people make when they get married is to think that they have to say `yes’ to whatever their new spouse asks of them. This never leads to happiness. Marriage is a union of two lives but those two lives are still two unique lives with unique interests. We marry someone because they interest us but, for some reason, once we’re married to them we ask them to change into someone they are not, never were, and never will be happy being. Why is that?
5.What makes a happy marriage?
- They sit and resolve issues together
- They support each other
- They know what they want in future
- There’s a strong foundation of trust
- They compromise for one another
- They respect each other
- They forgive each other
- They always keep the spark going
- They appreciate each other
- They grow together
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